I bet you’re getting a bunch of “how are you doing?” and “checking in” emails from people and businesses you probably forgot you subscribed to.
Everyone is sending them out right now, and I did not want to add to that noise (even though I really DO want to know if you are doing alright.
But I’m going to be vulnerable now and let you in on how I’ve been feeling.
Last week was tough. I felt overwhelmed and in a funk. I couldn’t find motivation.
I JUST DIDN’T FEEL LIKE DOING ANYTHING.
I wanted to stop. Stop the thinking. The planning. The coffee chats. The webinars. In the grand scheme of things, is taking a bunch of pretty pictures really meaningful?
So I took some time to just be.
And what did I discover? It’s more than taking a bunch of pretty pictures.
- It’s the impact & change that happen to the women AFTER their portrait session.
- The way she walks out the door feeling so great that she wants to go out and celebrate herself, and it’s not just the makeup.
- It’s the story she tells about how she has more confidence at work and at home (but she doesn’t know why).
- It’s the way she talks about herself and her legacy and understanding WHY these portraits are so important – not just for her, but to be remembered. To be part of the photos that her children and grandchildren can go through and see themselves in their grandparents, their aunts, their great-grandparents and tell their stories. TO EXIST to these generation.
And you know what happened? The next day, I woke up and I began to create. Not just a plan for helping more women to re-discover themselves, but for me.
You’ll begin to see new things from me. And I’m so excited.
FOR YOU- if you are having a moment, a difficult time, or feel like you are in a funk- it’s OK to take some time to chill. It’s uncomfortable not knowing what is next, especially as it has to do with your livelihood.
Give yourself some grace.
I’m rooting for you.
B
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Here are a few easy reads that speak to many of the roles we are playing - mom, wife, school teacher, babysitter, cook, housekeeper, chief disinfection coordinator, not to mention business owner.
Stay home.
Stay safe.
Don’t forget to take a few minutes FOR YOU.
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For you:
If you’re a sucker for a well curated feed and you want to distract yourself with something pretty, follow Pantone on Instagram for a healthy dose of inspiration.
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For business:
We’re spending a lot more time “on camera” in these days of quarantine. Here are a few secrets to looking good during those video calls.
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For health:
One of the best anti-anxiety medications available is generosity.
Helping others reduces stress by helping us feel valued and capable.
Talking through someone else's problems can give us wisdom for our own challenges—and motivate us to follow through.
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For family:
Re-invent the Family Cookbook
Take the family recipes and create a family cookbook, illustrated by each of you cooking, or showing the finished dish, eating. Dad at the barbeque- kids rolling meatballs- mom sitting at the table sipping wine…
You can make your book at Shutterfly or Forever
BONUS- if you make it a Christmas or Hannukkah gift – you’ve can brag you’ve already started shopping!
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Just because:
You may have noticed that there have been a lot of music type posts on my feed, most of them spoofing our current situation, and very creatively. Today, I am switching it up, going classic, because I have been feeling a little quiet and introspective lately and there is nothing like a full orchestra to take me out of my head and put me in this moment only. (Put the headphones on and turn the volume way up.)
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Stay home.
Stay safe.
Don’t forget to take a few minutes FOR YOU.
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