As a photographer, I find it an awesome rush of adrenaline to witness a woman gain ease in front of the camera and transform from who she used to be to who she is becoming…right before my eyes!
And yet, I see it time and time again. Women holding themselves back from stepping in front of the camera.
Instead of embodying her highest self to live the life of her dreams she holds herself back and is weighting…
Yep weighting.
I’ve seen it happen so many times. It’s the avoidance of being seen or getting in front of a camera until you have reach a certain weight goal. In the meantime, you put everything on hold until…
I get it. I’ve been there.
Here’s the number one way to get over weighting…
Dress for Your Shape, Not Your Size
This is the single most significant, paradigm shifting lesson to learn and it will change your life and allow you to exist in photographs for your loved ones to cherish.
I used to weigh myself daily, weekly, sometimes less, but always judged myself and my camera-ready worthiness based on my weight. If it went up, I ducked the camera. If it went down, then I felt ready to be seen (although it’s never quite enough, is it?). All the while feeling bad about myself, not getting out there and sharing more of my gifts and meeting wonderful people.
Have you ever done that?
It’s so common.
It’s so easy to hide in your clothes and have body shame when you gain weight. By dressing for your shape and not your size, and embracing your authentic brand style, you stop apologizing for your size and instead celebrate your shape. And then everything will change.
Instead, make your mission more important than your fear, learn how to dress for your shape, accentuate the positives and allow yourself the spotlight. Learn how to embrace your curves, appreciate yout uniqueness and live your dream!
What if Oprah weighted? We’ve all been witness to her very public struggle with her weight and how she continues to move forward despite the fluctuating size of her thighs. Oprah has done a masterful job of embodying her brand style AND dressing for her shape at every size.
When you reflect your brand style and dress for your body shape, you become authentically aligned. You gain more comfort being seen. You gain a natural confidence. You move in the world differently, unapologetically and that attracts all the right people into your life, it’s magnetic!
As a photographer, I know what beautiful looks like. Let me show you yours. Let me empower you to feel amazing in your own skin. Let me help you change the way you see yourself with beautiful photographs of yourself that you can cherish – and share. Beautiful photographs that your family can cherish.
Call today to find out more about an Elegant Beauty Photo Session and feel like a model.
Discover how gorgeous you really are
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It's about shining from the inside.
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